What’s the deal?

Ok, I’ve been going on this rant today but I can’t help it.  For those of you that don’t know, I have a daughter that was born with multiple Congenital Heart Defects.  She had a coarc repair done at 4 days old and to everyone that meets her seems like a normal (normal being relative) little girl.  Looks can be deceiving.  Grace still has defects and her Bicuspid Aortic Valve and Coarc Repair need to be monitored closely.  She can never participate in any contact sports of any kind…ever.  And, there is a very good chance that she will need surgery as she gets older to repair her valve and improve her quality of life.  But, her condition seems to be forgotten.

I guess I don’t understand why I give my grandmother a heart bracelet to help support the Herma Heart Center (where Grace’s surgery was performed) and she doesn’t EVER wear it.  But, she has a breast cancer ring and sticker on her car.  Don’t get me wrong, I am not begrudging my Aunt who is a breast cancer survivor, but Grace is far from out of the woods.  If you aren’t going to wear the bracelet, then give it back so I can wear it or give it to someone that will.

All I am asking for is a little support and understanding for us Moms and Dads that have a child who has a life threatening disease.  Just because it doesn’t seem like it, that’s where Grace stands.  Her future is uncertain and it weighs on me every day.  Thanks for listening and hopefully understanding where I am coming from.

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It’s been TOO long

Wow, looking back I can’t believe how long it has been since I have posted an entry to this blog.  Now that we have finally moved I guess it will be easier for me to get back into the swing of things.

First off, the move.  Well, thanks so to some wonderful friends of my hubby’s we are now in our new place.  I couldn’t be happier, it is over 2000 square feet, 3 bedrooms, 1 3/4 baths, wood burning fireplace, nice neighbors, etc…the only downfall (or upside depending on how you look at it) is that when the girls are downstairs and we are upstairs we can’t always hear them.  It is a split level townhouse so the way it is designed is that there are 2 bedrooms, a family room, 1 3/4 bath, washroom and storage downstairs and a bedroom, full bath, kitchen, dining room, and living room upstairs.  They are almost like two separate living areas which is nice, and the older they get will be even nicer.  But, I can’t always trust them so I had to go out and buy a baby monitor.  Kind of funny considering how old they are.

Speaking of which, in a few days my baby will be 5.  I will try and find the cable for the camera so I can post pictures, but I seriously don’t know where the time has gone.  We went and ordered her iCarly cake yesterday so she is thrilled about that.  Her dad and I have decided to buy her a karaoke machine because I have never seen a child who likes to sing as much as she does.  Her favorite song is “Your Decision” by Alice in Chains but her taste is really diverse, from kids songs, to Incubus and The Foo Fighters, to Motown, you name it, she can sing it.  Such a little doll!  Grace made her a countdown calendar and hung it on the fridge for her which was adorable and so sweet of her!

On Friday we have Muffins with Mom at school so that should be a lot of fun.  I get to go and enjoy muffins and a drink with Grace for 1/2 in the morning.  Before you know it school will be over and I will have a kindergartener and one in 1st grade.  Wow!

Well, it’s going to be a short one today because I am in the coffee shop trying to get some work done, but just wanted you all to know that I am still around.  Will touch base again soon!

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A Clean, Well-Lighted Place For Men by Dianne Sweeney

About Dianne Sweeney

Dianne Sweeney is the average, thirty-something, working woman of today–sometimes sarcastic, sometimes too honest for her own good–but she does tell it like it is. Professionally, she’s set. Friends–she has plenty. But love…well, isn’t that what we’re all looking for? Dianne resides in San Jose, California with her favorite cat, Scout.

You can visit Dianne at http://www.diannesweeney.com.

A Clean, Well-Lighted Place For Men

As I walk into the bookstore, my eyes immediately glance at the “must read books” table; I start toward it and stop myself. You are here to find men, not a book.

I walk toward the middle of the store and see a tall, sleek man standing there. I take a step forward and then stop. I look at the section heading: Diseases.

Okay, maybe he’s doing research. Maybe he’s a doctor looking up information, or maybe… My mind races ahead in time; I don’t even know this man’s name, but I am imagining us at a party surrounded by our mutual friends, when a woman turns to us and says, “How did the two of you meet?”

I cough nervously, “Well, he was in the disease section of Barnes and Noble, reading How to Stop the Spread of the Human Papilloma Virus…and it was love at first sight.”

No, I can’t. I just can’t get that image out of my head.

I take a step backward and move on to the Sports section. I imagine I am going to find a big burly man with muscles protruding through his jersey, reading a book about football or baseball. As I turn down that aisle, there is a man standing there, and what do you know, he has very nice forearms. I can tell he definitely works out. He is engrossed in a book, but I cannot tell what it is. He is so engrossed in it, in fact, that he doesn’t even notice I’m there. Casually, I peer over his shoulder. To my surprise, it is an Asian Biker Chick Calendar. Is that drool coming out of his mouth? I glance at the pictures; I look at their perfectly sculpted bodies. Dubiously, I glance down at my own and move on to another section.

I decide to check out the True Crime section. Now, this could go one of two ways, but I figure, let’s just see if there is anyone there.

I turn down the aisle, it’s empty. I stop and glance at the titles: The Real JonBenet Ramsey Story, Jack the Ripper, and Cabin 28: The Keddie Murders. My eyes are quickly scanning the titles when I come across one that sends my mind racing, Women Who Kill. Can you imagine if I were to purchase this book and have it out on my coffee table when my date comes to pick me up? Better yet, what if I left it in the guest bathroom for a little light reading? I could even highlight some passages and take notes on the sides. The notes could say, “This doesn’t work. You need a ten-inch blade, not a six- inch.”

Placing the book back on the shelf, I turn around and leave the bookstore. I leave my Mr. Right standing there gazing at the Science Fiction novels, dreaming of a woman who looks like Princess Leia in her gold bikini.

Kissing FrogsKissing Frogs in Cyberspace by Dianne Sweeney (click on cover to purchase at Amazon)

About Kissing Frogs in Cyberspace

In today’s age of virtual “hook-ups” and online encounters, it is no surprise that there are thousands of websites devoted to Internet dating.

Told in a series of vignettes, Kissing Frogs in Cyberspace, Dianne Sweeney’s revealing account of dating in the 21st century takes you on a hilarious, often poignant journey of online dates, dumps, and disasters. As she discovers the world of Internet dating is blessed by those seeking true love and plagued by those just “seeking.” Kissing Frogs in Cyberspace uncovers the reality of online dating-its pleasures, its horrors, and all the quirky stuff in between.

Read what critics say about Kissing Frogs in Cyberspace

This is a honest, funny, witty, and charmingly written book!! It’s one that you will not want to put down! In addition to the authors commentary and perspective of things, it includes the emails and instant messages that were sent back and forth from the author and her potential “princes”. I found myself laughing out loud for much of the book. Don’t miss out on this one!!
Vanessa – Amazon

This book was recommended to me by a friend who insisted that I read it. Oh my god! This is not a book to read on the bus unless you want to look like a crazy person!! I was laughing so hard out loud that the entire bus was staring! Not only is it a riot, but it is definitely easy for a man to relate to. I have already told my cube-mates at work to read it. Nice work Sweeney!
Miles Hansen

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House Hunting…again

I hate moving! I mean, I really hate it! Not the fresh start, that part I actually love. I just don’t like trying to find the right place and then packing up things and trying to get it all organized.

That said, we are in the process of looking again. The apartment that we are in is just too small for all of us and all of our stuff. So, we are off tonight to look at another house. Hopefully we find something soon in our price range because I know I can’t stay another summer here. Wish us luck!

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Seussical…and life

Sorry that’s it’s been awhile – sometimes life really does get in the way and I do apologize. Many things have been going on in our life, but I won’t bore you with any of the details now. Let me just say it makes for a somewhat stressful situation. Things will all work out but hopefully things will begin to change soon.

Yesterday my oldest daughter got a real treat. She was able to go to the Appleton PAC to see a production of Seussical.
seussical

There is a member of my family (who will remain nameless) who honestly believes that Dr. Seuss is nothing but nonsense. Now granted, he does make up words that rhyme in order to have a story flow. But are there greater lessons taught in a more entertaining way than in a Dr. Seuss book? My hubby and I had the discussion the other day about our favorite book. I don’t know if I can really pick a favorite, but I think it may be “Horton Hears a Who.” And what a great lesson – a person’s a person no matter how small. Or what about “Green Eggs and Ham”, or “The Lorax”? I think even adults can learn something from these books.

Sorry for the short post but I have so much to do tonight. I promise to be back soon – thanks for stopping!

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Guest post by Annette Fuson, author of “Straight Talk For Teenage Girls”

About Annette Fuson

Annette Fuson has been a teacher of teenage girls for many years. She has a BS and MA degree in Education and has also taught at the college level. She is married and has a daughter and granddaughter. The book, “Straight Talk for Teenage Girls” is about topics she taught, where she learned that the changes taking place in teen girls’ lives make them confused, afraid and frustrated. The information taught gave them realistic ideas to help them deal with this stage of life. The classes and discussions were lively and positive. The girls wanted ideas, encouragement and sensible answers to what was bothering them. She used this knowledge to write the book when she saw so many girls needed this kind of help. Girls need all the ideas and help they can get from school, parents, church and other adults to make good decisions that can help mold them with a minimum of problems along the way. Annette has a self-help test and case study at each chapter. Girls love these and adults who work with teens use them for discussion. It is in everyone’s interest for all teenage girls grow to be happy and confident adults. To that goal is her mission with the book. She speaks and has taught workshops for teens and parents of teens where she has information sheets and tests on parenting. Annette has a business helping people look and dress their best for themselves and their careers. She gives presentations to businesses. But Annette Fuson’s true purpose it helping teenage girls. She has been chosen Citizen of the Year and Queen of Sales many times. These accomplishments show she is a leader and a “people person” that can make a difference in many lives.

You can visit her at www.straighttalkforgirls.com

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I am one of the luckiest people I know! Maybe because I think positive and expect good thing to happen. The groups that I am part of are filled with fun and interesting people. I play bridge with people who laugh and find humor in small things. I am lucky in cards and love! My husband is very loving to me. He sends me e-cards for so many occasions and does small things to make my life easier. I also had a spot on my lung – by accident – and it was cancer, even though I had never smoked. They removed it and my lobe so I was FREE. To me it was an “act of God”. When I thought about writing my book, I was really too busy and had too many phone calls that interrupted me. But then for 10 DAYS, my phone “accidently” went to someone else and I had NO CALLS. When I was nearly finished, but needed “down time” to finish, I suddenly had foot surgery so I could finish it! I have a daughter and a teenage granddaughter whose lives are full and happy. They share and do good things for others, so I have no worries. Even my friends tell me I am lucky. Maybe it is the way you live your life – smile and the world smiles with you!?
Annette Fuson

!Straight Talk for Teenage GirlsStraight Talk for Teenage Girls by Annette Fuson (click on cover to purchase at Amazon)

About Straight Talk for Teenage Girls

Straight Talk for Teenage Girls is information to help teen girls make better choices about life situations so they will grow to adulthood successfully. Topics include: self-esteem, dealing with emotions, making decisions, friendships with girls/boys, getting out of bad situations, handling mistakes and reaching goals. Because of the self-tests, case studies at each chapter and the 50 questions from real girls, adults who work with teens use the book for discussions. The information comes from classes taught in school for over 20 years. The book is up-beat, positive and easy to understand. The mission is to help all girls make choices that will lead to a happier life.

Read the excerpt!

“Mistakes are normal. Everyone makes mistakes. Mistakes don’t have to pull you down. You can learn from your mistakes. It is never too late to fix a mistake! Mistakes come from making bad or wrong decisions. They come from being with the wrong person or being easily led by them. Mistakes come from not thinking ahead or mostly not thinking…”Is this what’s best for ME?” You have NO control over other people, you only have control over yourself! Your mistakes will affect others too. You’ve learned in “Getting Out of Bad Situations” chapter that you have to learn to cope or take action when it comes to other people. Other people can’t use you without your permission. So you have made a big mistake, let’s learn from it and go on. It is NEVER too late to change, you just have to want to change. Let’s look at some mistakes and what you can do to change or help a friend change: Choosing Wrong Friends, Being Promiscuous, Drugs and Alcohol, Getting Pregnant, Molestation, Self-Injury/Cutting and Controlling/Abusive Boyfriends.”

Read what critics have to say!

“Straight Talk for Teenage Girls” is exactly what the title tells us, as Annette Fuson discusses important issues facing all teen girls today. The teen years are a time of change, and this can be confusing, frustrating and even scary for teens. Annette has made a resource for young ladies to go to for answers, suggestions or just for reassurance. During these teen years, hormones are raging, and sometimes it may be easier for a teen to read a suggestion from a reliable source than take some verbal advice from a well-meaning parent.

I can highly recommend “Straight Talk” to all teen girls and their concerned parents.
Reader Views

Annette Fuson’s “Straight Talk for Teenage Girls” is a great guide for girl teens on everyday life struggles. I read this book in three days, and was amazed at what I realized about myself. A friend of mine asked to borrow the book and she gave it back the next day saying she absolutely loved the advice. Fuson offers advice on relationships, friendships, parents, and much more. She includes fun quizes and there are questions from real teens that she answers. I definitely give this book a thumbs up!
Andrea West

This was a great conversation starter for my daughter and I. We were able to talk about boys, sex, and other important topics that we did not feel comfortable talking about before. Great advice and simple to understand. Reminded me of Dr. Phil.
Susan Smith

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Guest Post by Bill Walker, author of “A Note From an Old Acquaitance”

Join Bill Walker, author of the soul searching romance novel, A Note From an Old Acquaintance (iUniverse, June 2009), as he virtually tours the blogosphere in February and March on his third virtual book tour with Pump Up Your Book Promotion!

About Bill Walker

Bill Walker is a graphic designer specializing in book and dust jacket design, and has worked on projects by Ray Bradbury, Richard Matheson, Dean Koontz, and Stephen King. Between his design work and his writing, he spends his spare time reading voraciously and playing very loud guitar, much to the chagrin of his lovely wife and two sons. Bill makes his home in Los Angeles and can be reached through his web site: http://www.billwalkerdesigns.com/

A Note from an Old AquaintanceA Note From an Old Acquaintance by Bill Walker (click on cover to order at Amazon)

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I was quite unprepared for love when first it came to me. I was fifteen and attending a new boarding school in Western Massachusetts, renowned as much for its high academic standards as it was for its bucolic location nestled in a horseshoe of the Berkshire Mountains. It was my first day there and after meeting my roommate, stowing my gear and making my bunk, I decided to take a walk around the campus. The grounds were alive with students. You could tell the new ones. Like me, they strolled around in a semi-catatonic daze, trying to get their bearings.
It was later in the afternoon when I saw Claudia for the first time. I literally stopped in my tracks, watching her stride up the walkway toward the main building, where the new students were to meet for a brief orientation. The spun gold of her light blonde hair caught the rays of the September sun as it swayed across her shoulder blades, and the air grew thick around me, my breath catching in my throat. Her Caribbean-blue eyes shown with an inner light, set into a face while not supermodel beautiful, nonetheless struck me with its knowing innocence. Her body, however, was far from innocent, shaped in curvaceous ways no fifteen-year-old body should have been. I was captivated. And I had no idea what in hell to do.
You see, I’d always been very shy, and while I’d had crushes on girls before, none of them hit me with the primal force of nature that was Claudia. The emotions rushing through me every time I caught sight of her were so intense—so powerful—my heart raced and my tongue seized in my mouth, rendering me mute. Eventually, I worked up the courage to speak to her and we became friends, but I wanted so much more and lacked the courage to say or do anything about it. I watched, in agony, as she took up with another boy, their attraction to each other a palpable thing.
When she broke up with him a month or two later, I was hopeful again, but those fleeting aspirations were dashed, when one of the “big men on campus” swept her off her feet. He broke her heart shortly thereafter and I tried to be of solace to her, to be the friend she needed, in the hopes she would at last see the love brimming in my heart. I ached to declare myself, but feared ridicule, or worse, the dreaded “we’re just friends” speech. Alas, she found romance with yet another boy and after a few dark nights of the soul I finally realized she and I would never have that kind of relationship.
I only spent a year at the school, as my family moved from Connecticut to Florida that spring, where I attended a private day school. The truth was I could never go back to that school nestled in the mountains, could never walk those ivied halls again without being reminded of her. I still think of Claudia every now and then and wonder how her life’s turned out. I hope she’s happier now than she was then.
If you’re out there, Claudia, now you know the truth….

About A Note From an Old Acquaintance

Brian Weller is a haunted man. It’s been two years since the tragic accident that left his three-year-old son dead and his wife in an irreversible coma. A popular author of mega-selling thrillers, Brian’s life has reached a crossroads: his new book is stalled, his wife’s prognosis is dire, and he teeters on the brink of despair.

Everything changes the morning an e-mail arrives from Boston artist Joanna Richman. Her heartfelt note brings back all the poignant memories: the night their eyes met, the fiery passion of their short-lived affair, and the agonizing moment he was forced to leave Joanna forever. Now, fifteen years later, the guilt and anger threaten to overwhelm him. Vowing to make things right, Brian arranges a book-signing tour that will take him back to Boston. He is eager to see Joanna again, but remains unsure where their reunion will lead. One thing is certain: the forces that tore their love asunder will stop at nothing to keep them apart.

Filled with tender romance and taut suspense, A Note from an Old Acquaintance is an unforgettable story about fate, honor, and the power of true love.

“Please tell me why you’re doing this, Brian! Please!”
He tried opening his mouth, tried to tell her the truth, but the words
he’d always wielded with such effortless aplomb, failed him, slipping
away like smoke on a windy day. His throat felt as if it were gripped in
a vise, his mind a flat, cracked slab of flyblown desert; and her muted
sobs echoing through the phone’s earpiece made him want to take it all
back. Every word. But how could he do that, now?
“I—I’m sorry, Joanna…for everything….”
“BRIANNNN!”
THE PHONE JANGLED, RIPPING Brian Weller out of the dream. He sat
up, gasping, sounds and images jumbling in his groggy brain until
none of it made any sense.
The phone rang again, startling him.
He grabbed it, his eyes struggling against the darkness in the
room.
What time was it?
Jesus, it was only 6:00. It felt even earlier due to the late night he’d
spent at the computer.

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Brian has been hit with life’s most devastatingly tragic event a parent can encounter. Not only did the horrible accident leave Brian to mourn the loss of his son, it also put his wife in a coma. Brian is left to face this life alone.

But then, one day he receives an unexpected email from someone in his past. This someone is Joanna, a woman he was once in love with. At that time the two were thrust apart by circumstances beyond their control. Fifteen years later the two are given a chance at a second shot at love. Will the past years make a difference and allow them to find happiness together or will Brian have to deal with yet another disaster?

A very touching novel that will make your heart ache.
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I can say with all candor I enjoyed the book thoroughly. I’m the novel reader in my family and I usually read an average of two novels per week. My taste runs the gamut. I read NY Times best sellers and books by lesser known authors purely because I’m intrigued by the description on the back dust cover. Mr. Walker’s book is a very entertaining and quick read. Love at first sight is something most of us can relate to, and I dare say that pretty nearly everyone that I know has a Brian or a Joanna in their past. The author’s combination of the torment of love lost with the elation of discovering that love can endure through the most trying of life’s events was very emotional and ultimately very gratifying. That most of us are, or have been, on a quest to find and capture our “soul mate” adds total credibility to the book. If I might be totally cliché, I really did find this book to be both heat-wrenching and heart warming. My husband and I have a fairly sizable library and the Walker book has taken it’s place on the shelf to be enjoyed again in the near future.
-Carleen

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Guest Post by Michele Paiva, author of “Truth, Next Exit”

Join Michele Paiva, author of the spiritual self help book, Truth, Next Exit (Ballesta, October  2009), as she virtually tours the blogosphere in February on her first virtual book tour with Pump Up Your Book Promotion!

About Michele Paiva

Much like the patchwork of a quilt, Michele Paiva’s experiences seem topically eclectic but are sewn together by a love of empowerment, justice and spirituality. A former broadcast news anchor, broadcast reporter, telesales spokesperson, television choreographer, print journalist, editor, yoga therapist, dance and yoga studio owner, myoskeletal therapist and legal advocate; Paiva has been dedicated to bringing a voice to others and helping others achieve. A former Mrs. Pennsylvania, a title won on a dare and at first in jest, Paiva is down to earth and approachable, and credits her diverse background as a way that she reaches wide demographics. Paiva enjoys collecting I Dream of Jeannie memorabilia, cooking, spending time with family and friends and honestly, being a couch potato when not being a yogi or hiking. Paiva lives in the suburbs of Philadelphia with her family and three rescue dogs who have taken over her world.

Paiva can be reached at www.michelepaiva.com where there are also free downloadable recipes and more.

Guest Post

As the cupid tenses his bow again this season, I’m reminded of all the entire February saga. Normally, I am very positive and trust me, this is positive but it’s tough love-eque. Right about now, women are going to go gaga over guys who treat them like crap, or normally bright ladies are pining over some guy who isn’t even deserving of them, or people are hoping for love to strike them between the eyes. No. Wrong. Stop.
Love yourself first, then you can love others. You don’t need “him” for a great life.
Love yourself so you can let love in. If you find a “him” be stable enough to endure.
If someone hurts you, you don’t have to stop loving, just love from a distance. Key word, “Distance”. Don’t chase after or take crap from someone who treats you like crap.
It’s not selfish to love yourself first. It’s smart.
If you say things like “well normally he is great” – dump him. He has to be respectful and good to you all the time; don’t sell yourself short just because HE is selling you short.
It’s damn liberating to put yourself first and expect love and respect.
Forgiving doesn’t mean being a doormat.
Don’t share too much of yourself too fast. What’s the rush?
Live like you want to live; don’t put living on a shelf and just exist.
Lose whiny friends. The ones who only complain about their lives. Gag.
Don’t pretend to be a pushy broad but act like a wet rag with men. Assert!
Surround yourself with positive, encouraging, motivating and bright people; because you deserve it. Now THAT is love!

About Truth, Next Exit

Have you struggled with weight, wellness, addictions, relationships or work? This spiritually based book is set up with the idea that when you begin reading it, it will lull you comfortably into motivation and creating changes “now”.
Essentially, when you open the book you are on a journey and as you read you have opportunities to “drive” or apply these ideas into your life. The book is set up as a no-excuses approach; if you say you believe in scripture you can’t pick and choose when to apply scripture to your life; it’s immediate connection which also, helps take immediate action. You may be comfortably motivated but it may bring upheaval and some hard truth to swallow, so be prepared for no-excuses scripture to change your life.

…Abraham has three guests; one states that Sarah will have a son. She mocks him and then God announces that he will destroy Sodom and Gomorrah. Lot and his wife flee, are warned to not turn back, the wife turns back to view and turns to a pillar of salt.
Later, Abraham is asked to sacrifice his son, he makes all intention to do so, as much as bringing the knife above the boy on the alter he has made, and an angel appears to him to stop him; God responds with a promise to Abraham and in exchange for his obvious obedience, “All ye nations of earth shall bless themselves by your descendants”. Jacob collects statues and accuses others of stealing his idols.When we practice idolatry, we are really placing importance on something as it if were more important than it is. We do this with entertainers, celebrities; vain attempts at our external image and more. We also do not place the correct weight upon honesty.…Some of us use truth in ways meant to hurt others; telling someone that they are inexperienced in spite of their good ideas and motivations because perhaps we fear them rising above us. Is it true that they may lack experience? Yes. But should that truth be used, or manipulated, to hold against them? Pick your battles and focus on truth and it’s part in peace. If you use truth as a weapon it loses authenticity.

These passages from the Torah or Bible can teach us so much about us and others. It is wonderful that Sarah welcomes visitors and drops what she is doing to feed them. We have food shelters now, but how often would we welcome people into our home in the same breadth?
We have lost the luster for personal relationships and outreach has become more contrived. When we say we volunteer we are correct; when we say we help others, we do so, but more superficially.

Our world has become idol worship focused and we show this even in outreach. We brag about helping others and it is an “event” to help others. How many of us help others in silence, without public reward or group effort?

We focus on the beauty around us; we want to look beautiful. We want our children to look beautiful. We buy jewelry and fancy clothes and cars, and continue to focus on the beauty of our homes and lives in almost every way.

Again, we focus on false idols. We say we don’t but we give a lot of time, energy and money for celebrities to live honored lives while we actually as a whole, give far less to those who are hungry.

So, we take something not beautiful. Dust and dirt. We try to rid ourselves of such. But without dirt, we would have no gardens, yards, playgrounds, and acres of forests. Dirt is really, more beautiful than a diamond.

So, in your worst moments, realize that you may be looking at the wrong focus, the wrong idol, and that maybe you are much more amazing than you think. Maybe the very people you should be focusing on, are the very people you’ve ignored.

When you look at yourself, before you leave your home, how much about you do you change? Or, how much do you wish you could change?
What are areas of your life you are 100% happy with?
When you think of things you feel are beautiful, what are they? Would you rather have a garden to feed you endlessly or riches to show off to others?
What are ways you can begin to see the light within yourself without comparing yourself to others?
What can you do, to create more personal relationships even while volunteering? How can you help those you volunteer for, to be touched by your generosity?

Read the Reviews:

This book asks many questions and slyly leads one to understand that the only one who can answers these questions is you. It reminds you that there is a higher power who can help you through your life challenges, yet shows you that you need not believe in organized religion to believe in that higher power. It poses questions that, if you are honest enough to answer them, can help guide you to the self realization that your problems are not insurmountable and can be dealt with. This book is an easy read and extremely helpful. Thank you Michele for this wonderful book and for the inspiration to improve my life through the principles you have discussed.
A. Timothy Fowlar

Michele Paiva’s TRUTH, NEXT EXIT will officially begin on February 1 and end on February 26. You can visit Michele’s  blog stops at www.virtualbooktours.wordpress.com during the month of February to find out more about this great book and talented author!

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Another new month

and I start it with a sinus infection.  Let me tell you, this makes it hard to function at times.  I actually went to the doctor this morning who told me that it was most likely viral which means the meds I have been taking won’t make any difference…great.  And then he told me that it would probably last another 3 or 4 days.  I’m keeping my fingers crossed that at least the pain from the headache diminishes slightly.  I am volunteering at school tomorrow and the next day and it will make for a long day if I feel like I do now.

We made a pretty major purchase this weekend…well, a major purchase for us as we do try to be pretty frugal.  We decided to break down and buy Rockband 2 for the Wii.  With a 4 and 6 year old it is pretty funny to watch them try and do the guitar and drums.  Everyone keeps telling me that before long I will be addicted to it but only time will tell.  I enjoy doing so many other things that I can’t imagine this taking the place of those but I could be wrong.

We also planned a mini trip to Wisconsin Dells.  There is a hotel down there called Hotel Rome that has an indoor theme park and water park and it will be just the thing to help break up the winter.  We did the same thing last year and the girls had such a good time (and we did too).  Unfortunately I had pneumonia at the time so here’s hoping we can all stay healthy this time.

I have also signed up for NaBloPoMo for February so here’s hoping I can stick to it.  Have a great night everyone!

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